LOVE: A triangle of Trust, Fate and Pain
Defining Triangle of LOVE is the most complicated thing in this world, but let me try to confine it in a nutshell. Love is all about having someone who proves through his actions, not in just words alone, that he trusts you, someone who gives you the freedom to be a perfect reflection of yourself, who stands by your side through thick and thin. Love is having faith in each other, loving your soulmate wholeheartedly and by giving your hundred and ten percent. Love is about having that one and only person in your life who understands you, someone who will be there for you even at your worst without caring that he himself is broken or is going through something bad. Someone who understands your silence, someone who gives you all his power and strength so that you can survive in this world and someone who absorbs all your pain and sadness in such a way that you may never feel broken again. Love is something that will lead you to discover those abilities even unknown to you. Love is having that person who corrects you and not just leaves you on making a simple mistake, who helps you and guides you, someone who is your support and your hope. Love is directly proportional to the courage, determination, consistency and loyalty. In the end, love is about having that person who keeps you happy, celebrates each and every single moment with you and who loves you through your soul and even in your darkest times.
“Although I may try to describe love, when I experience it, I am speechless. “
Love has many pilgrims but the most important are trust, fate and pain, known as ‘triangle of love.’
The most crucial trait of any relationship is trust. Trusting your other half and having faith in him without any doubt is very much meaningful in love. Sharing everything builds up a home of trust where you rely on each other and make the other happy. Love demands loyalty from the person you love.
Fate, the one which is not in our hands, the one which is pre-written by God, proves to be a turning point for the ones who love each other. Loving someone is the thing that we can control, that is in our hands, but having that person for the rest of your life is in the hands of fate.
Loving someone and not being able to have that person in your life, gives you so much pain and heartache. Thinking about all the dreams that you wish to become true, thinking about that person who is no longer with you, bursts you into tears. There are some people on this earth that can’t be replaced.
Love is not about just loving the other person through words, just saying that I Love You and do nothing. Love is also not about wishing to have all these things from that person and gives cipher. Love is not about making the person cry and hurt him so badly that he can’t even trust anyone else. Love is not about using another person for your own benefits, making fun of his feelings and emotions and at the end left him all alone because you are tired of that person and are now in search of new prey. Beware of what you do with someone, as karma finds its way to do the same with you. Wrapping up, ‘Triangle of Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.’ (Robert A. Heinlein)
“The garden of love is green without limit and yields many fruits other than sorrow and joy. Love is beyond either condition: without spring, without autumn, it is always fresh.”
Written By: Eman Naveed