Friendship…Freedom, Feeling, Fun To Fake, Frail, Fraud
Friendship…a relation of souls merged like water and shines like the flaring sun, purer than the blood relations, lovelier than the beloved ones, more fragrant than the spring’s garden of love. Life’s greatest blessing is to have true friends because friends are more cordial than any relation to whom we can share our deepest secrets of heart, to whom we can pour our blood to the dryness.
People used to devote life, money, time to this greatest relationship i.e. Friendship. It was a symbol of life, freedom, enjoyment, togetherness, leisure, happiness etc. With the passage of time transitions took place and life got changed…people changed, lifestyle changed, mindset changed, relations changed, values changed…Under this parasol friendship got contaminated with selfishness, pride, fakeness, dual-facing and branches of this interconnected tree got devastated. And the garden of love and hope bears perpetual autumn of darkness, coldness and hopelessness.
Friendship…is like an unopened softer bloom which loses its beauty, magnificence and shape with the cruel impulse of wild wind. No smoothing, calm and balmy wave of breeze can regenerate the desolated colours of that bloom and moreover, it will gradually turn into pale and ashy leaves of unhappy hung boughs. At last the woeful leaves will mourn silently on deliberate wounds of death by burying the heartaches in the deepest valley of heart.
Some people use to forget the shine of friendship in ups and downs of life but this negligence will definitely show them the mirror of their outcomes. Their selfishness will make them cry over their attack on the sacredness of friendship. These serpents like frenemies don’t deserve attention, care and affection who burn in strange jealousy. These on-fire souls won’t let one beat in deceits and evils. Affection will be yours when you are with them, hatred will ignite them in your absence. Let me say that they are the true depiction of Roman God Janus, the two-faced god of transition and duality.
Under all these calamities, we don’t have any way except to say: I didn’t lose a friend, I just realized I never had one. Life will go on…people will come and leave like bubbles of water but don’t let anyone affect you like frenemies. Make yourself consistent and yes be true, honest and amiable to all and let them decide their way.
Written By: Yasir Mahmood